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Monday, November 16, 2009

Coaching Jay - 300 Crunch

Well I've done a week of the training and have to say that it wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be. It was certainly much harder and I found myself sweating much more than in my previous routine, mainly as a result of taking shorter breaks and the increase in the number of new exercises.

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Friday, November 13, 2009

New Moon vs 2012

Isang hapon sa kahabaan ng EDSA at Ayala, napansin ng isang binata ang banner ng isang pelikula na matagal ng inaabangan ng nakakarami.

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Thursday, November 12, 2009

Ecstasy

"ano ba ginagawa ng ecstasy sa katawan?" tanong ko sa isang kaibigan. sabi niya pamparelax daw. sabi ko naman, "bakit pamparelax? eh di ba iyun ang ginagamit ng mga party-goers para mas lalo silang mag-ienjoy sa party?" tanong ko ulit. sabi niya ulit, "nagpapa increase kasi ng sensation iyun." napaisip ako. "pero di ka titigasan. so u need viagra." pahabol niya. ano?

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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Transient

People come and go. They come into our lives and then leave us. They are our friends, relatives, lovers, and complete strangers that somehow at one particular time or another made marks in our life. They come and go and we are just transit points until one or some of them would realize that they have reached their final destination, but until then, we could only play hosts, and they, our guests.

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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Interlude: Versus

You pull your mom in one corner and tell her in a very serious tone of your voice, “Mom, I am straight.” Your mom would put a smile on her face and tell you, “My son, you do not need to tell me that. Of course, I know you are straight.” The end. Rewind. You pull your mom in one corner and tell her in a very serious tone of your voice, “Mom, I am gay.” Your mom would put a smile on her face and tell you, “My son, you do not need to tell me that. Of course, I know you are gay.” The end. There is really no difference, right?

Until now, I have not admitted or told anyone that I am sexually attracted to the same sex, not my parents, not my friends, and not even to those who have learned my sexual behavior.

When I introduce HB to my parents, I did not say, “Ma, Pa, I am gay. This is HB, my partner.” Rather, I introduce HB, “This is HB, my roommate and workmate.” Did I lie? No. Did my parents read between the lines? Probably not, but that is immaterial. The point is, I introduced someone to my parents and that they would have thought that that person is important to me..
My friends did not hear me saying, “I am gay”, and I think what they have heard me saying, “Lalake ako”, without batting an eyelash. Did I lie? No. My answer is a matter of fact. I dress like a man, talk like a man, act like a man, and think like a man. If they have asked, “Are you attracted to a man?” or “Have you had sex with a man?”, probably I would say yes. But they did not ask.

Did HB ever hear me saying “Bakla ako”? Asked him and he would say NO. I have not admitted it, not even when I kiss HB and he would tell me jokingly, “Bading ka ba? Bakit mo ako hinahalikan?” “Putcha, hindi ako bakla. Bakla lang ba ang nanghahalik sa kapwa lalake?” I would retort. Did I lie? No. Even when I touch his dick and call me “bading” I would still not admit that I am.

I am not saying that I am not a homosexual. I am, of course, when I am engaging sex with another man. However, I am not homosexual a hundred percent of the time and as such, I would not consider my total being as homosexual. I am still a man, a human being.

Homosexual vis-a-vis Heterosexual. Why are we making such a big issue of a behavior that does not even spell an entire individual, person, or character? Do we really need to qualify ourselves as either of which just to dignify the bigotry of our culture?

Being a homosexual is not a condition that needs attention and consequently needs a remedy. It is not a disease needing revelation. It is not a crime needing reparation. Homosexuality is sexual attraction with the same sex, just like heterosexuality, which is sexual attraction to the opposite sex. It is just like that. It is a behavior between consenting partners irregardless of sex, religion, age, race, and culture. It is a natural and amoral behavior serving no cultural norms.

Next time you would be thinking of declaring your homosexuality. Think twice, because you are just justifying it as an aberration, a disease, or a crime. Respect what and who you are and you will get it in return.
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Thursday, November 05, 2009

Training Coach?

I was chatting to this Londoner last Monday when he starts to praise how I look like. It was a webcam chat so he was looking at my body and admiring it. Impressed with what he was seeing, he started to ask for my training exercises. I was not able to make sensible answers because he was not the only one I am chatting with, so I asked him to email me. Here is the second email he sent yesterday. This is his reply to the training schedule I gave him.

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Tuesday, November 03, 2009

Three Unhealthy Days

Last weekend was a very lame one for me. There was no physical activity whatsoever and by “physical” I mean, no gym, no badminton, no running, no swimming, etc. I was not even able to get my haircut because my barber was on vacation for the All Soul’s day holiday. How I despise the non-activity?

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Friday, October 30, 2009

Shrink

walanghiya, nabiktima na naman ako. parati na lang nangyayari ito. akala ko pa naman ay malaking tulong ang magagawa niya dahil sa madadagdagan ang oras ko sa mga raket at pasarap sa buhay. bakit lumiit na naman? low profile pa naman ako. ayokong mahalata ang tinatago ko.

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